今晚又來了個閨蜜晚餐,和敏今晚聊了也是很多,之所以叫做第四出動是因爲最近我開始追看一部日劇-《東京白日夢女》,劇中女主角和閨蜜們有所謂的聚會原因:

第一出動 - 閑著無聊想來一杯時

第二出動 -  工作不順想發牢騷時

第三出動 - 想說某人壞話時

第四出動 - 有關男人的緊急狀態時

哈哈哈哈沒錯,今夜我們出動是爲了男人哈哈哈,因爲最近輪到我們的敏敏桃花旺咯

老實說,知道敏有了新的約會對象后,有替他開心之餘,也間接擔心自己的狀況,感覺好像快剩下自己一個人了

可能如此,最近真的很消極,覺得做什麽東西都沒有勁,沒有信心,更別説什麽愛自己什麽了

對人對事,自己向來都是愛恨分明,只是沒想到敏今晚提醒我一定要改掉這種觀念和想法,因爲她不想我變成她討厭的那種人

我其實也不知道哪一面引發她這種反應,我只是覺得我最近很消極,對很多東西(聽到的還是看到的)都很不屑

我不懂是不是因爲環境的關係,還是年齡引發的心理的關係,反正就是對很多東西都不滿,不爽,不屑

很不好,我當然知道,我也很想擺脫這個狀況,也不明白發生了什麽事,大概是因爲從玩了那個交友app加上前同事所謂的“改造”和“洗腦”讓我更加喪失信心

我就是如此不堪一擊,任何人,即使和自己沒什麽相干的人的一句話我就是可以淪陷,就是如此脆弱

很感謝hema上次告訴我學習無視那些抨擊和言語,或許如此才造就我現在的不屑對吧?

 

反正今夜和敏敞開心房后,有點釋懷,覺得自己還有這麽一個可以聊心的閨蜜實屬難得,很珍惜我們相聚的時光因爲很害怕她如果談戀愛后會有異性沒人性哈哈哈 

至於我自己的事,終究還是得自己去解決吧?

我會好好的,只是真的要努力去改變心態和想法,我會試著去改變自己主觀的那一面並且提高自己的信心,真的要相信自己,愛自己多一點,努力的活著,成爲自己想成爲的人吧!

加油!!

回到今晚的餐點,我們去了最近相當紅的一家新開的綜合式的素食咖啡廳,話説我們等位置等了10分鐘,等餐點等了近30分鐘!

食物本身就真的很天然,有機沒有我不懂因爲沒證據證明,但是我想說的是,那位服務員不斷的長篇大論解釋爲何餐點會需要那麽久的烹煮時間,然後等了這麽久看到的餐點卻看不見所謂的用心和需要那麽久的烹煮時間

就如我點的這一份番茄燉蛋,其實是水煮蛋吧?!放了幾片番茄在下方,然後直接把2顆蛋打在上方再放入oven,就告訴我是bake egg?! 你當我是白痴嗎?

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還需要長時間燉!?拜托,那個蛋都已經過熟了好嗎!

怎麽說,這種餐廳堅持原汁原味,並且以健康作賣點是好的,但是這麽貴的餐單(還要很多東西都放在餐單上然後又無法供應==),那麽多的解釋來做遲上菜的藉口,說什麽很多人病了所以今晚上菜慢,你知不知道如果你的員工病了,在這一行(hospitality)根本是不允許來上班的,萬一我們食物中毒怎麽辦?

反正我再也不會光顧了,希望他們真的有所改進。

 

怎麽說都好,我們今夜的第四出動最後都要變成第五出動了(我自己取的- 赤裸裸的心事大會)哈哈哈

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First of all, I didnt know it was a movie adapted from a Japanese manga, I thought it was a science fiction with a Japanese society background.

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Somehow after realized it was based on a Japanese manga, i was also thrilled that they chosen Scarlett Johansson as the lead.

Well, I guess i can take it as the japanese lady was caught and being tranformed to into a mechanical body with a white people appearance then.

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Indeed Bean gone for Scarlett and I was just a company hehe.

But, the movie was beyond my expectation, i thought i would fell asleep because i am not a sci-fic fan.

However, Scarlett's performance was too attractive and i couldnt take my eye off for her lol

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Overall, the story plot was not bad, although it was about the memory lost, and losing identity, but it never really turned into a revenge story.

Perhap i was not a fan of the original manga, and have no any idea about the storyline, so i was quite happy with the movie.

Of cause, there were something not perfect with the visual effect or there are something unexplainable, but you know, it was a sci-fic, and also just a movie after all.

For myself, i quite enjoy this 106 minutes in the dark space, with watching how beautiful Scarlett Johansson is, lol/

I am actually not her fan, but somehow always attracted by her look and amused by her voice. 

Maybe just like Johnny Depp, I am bias towards Scarlet too, I think most movie with Scarlett in was not bad. 

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Back to the movie, i am not going to comment on the fighting scene, i think the effect was good enough.

The story was rather expected, although i got goosebump because i never knew it was based on a Japanese manga, the moment Scarlett went to her biological mother, who was a Japanese lady who lost her daughter somehow made me wonder....

After the hidden revealed, i was happy for Major (Scarlett), at least she found what she had lost, i guess because it was an action based movie, so there is not much scene described how Major accepting the truth that she was being kidnapped and abducted then placed into a shell. I was expection more emotional action after she found out this cruel truth, but there were not much follow up in the movie.

I guess there are more things and stories to tell, Kuze (another shell) said that he lost something and he wanna find out, that's how made him into all the revenges, killing innocents, but Major was different, she think memories did not define who she is, and she never allow herself to become a killing machine, she is well aware what she going and want to do. Since the begining of the movie, she already took action against the Chief of Section 9. 

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Since the begining, like what the villian in this movie said, she was uncontrollable, and thanks to the scientist who created her has a good heart to reveal the truth and sacrified for Major.

But Scarlett, as the major, is uncontrollable in the way that she will fight for justice, and she believe this is why she was built to become - not the memory, not the past defining who she is, but what she doing define who she is =) 

This is also the important msg i learnt from the movie, let the memories to be burried with the past, but remember how far u come, and what u doing now define who you are now.

No matter how successful you were or how awful you were in the old days, that's already past. But what you doing now, will define you. 

So enjoy the moment you are doing every single thing, and remember your action, define who you are =)

 

And i must confess i really like Takeshi Kitano who cast for the role - Aramaki, the chief of Section 9, he was too charming in the movie, i was so scared if his life would be taken, but he was too cool to die you know, lol

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For the first time, I drove myself to Publika, which means the target I set for a long while - to drive to KL is success now =D Wee~

This is not a joke, and I never into those prank for April Fool, i did it~

Actually I could consider myself success when I drove to Mid Valley end of last year, but Mid Valley is somehow considered quite close to PJ (to me), so i guess Publika is a good milestone hehe.

Not to mention that I also drove to Bangsar 2 months ago, now I am more confident to drive to those places I used to be afraid or nervous of =)

Maybe one day I could drive to KLCC, KL city centre (B.Bintang, Pavillion, Timesquare etc). 

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Went to meet Cheryl today, and also saw the art market held at Publika every weekend.

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This is actually a good platform for the local artist and seller to show the public their creativeness on craft or other brilliant ideas.

I gone to an artistic zakka shop and bought this:

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I am going to send this card to Sze Ying for her birthday, and hope the local food can remind her home everytime she saw the card =)

Then, I was so hesitate to buy this necklace, because of the recent minimalist trend, I started to like simple thing, this tiny but meticulous copper colored arrow necklace was so beautiful ^^

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After wandering around a few stores, Cheryl was here and we gone to The Red Bean Bag instead of the initial plan - Ante. 

Waited for 4 tables only able to get a table, this was my second attempt at the red bean bag, this cafe still receive such a overwhelming crowd after 2 years, it was really a great success.

Overall, i think they somehow also maintain their food quality, my last baked egg dish experience was not that great, but this time, my Atlantic dish actually was satisfying.

 

 

The presentation was good, just like 2 fishes swimming in the black sea, and actually the bread underneath is French Toast =D

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Both toast contain different combination: one with sauteed mushroom, while another with wilted Australian baby spinach. 

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The French toast just like how the menu described: FLUFFY~ very soft upon biting, and not oily at all =) 

Portion was just right, i didnt feel guilty after finished up both French toast, and the combination of the poached egg with the remaining was meant to be together =) 

I guess I will come back here again for trying other dishes, because i really think their dishes are heartful and passionate which is rarely seen in Malaysia.

Hope they keep this standard forever !

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For drink, i totally jumped to the wrong boat, should have read the menu more precisely, it written freshly squeezed and bottled juice, what i was thinking !?

But the taste was not too bad, just very tiny and it didnt really fulfill my sweet tooth, as I did not eat any dessert today hmmmm.

Yea, reason was Cheryl seems not interested then i might be end up eating all by my own. =S 

I am well aware of there is plenty of dessert places at Publika and I ald shouted that loud to Cheryl, but could tell she is not excited as I did.

So, kept that for someone who appreciate the same thing then =) 

After all, I am happy to try out her bridemaid dress, and looking forward for her wedding~

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By the way, mum also had bought something good this weekend, check out this!

Is the NZ yoghurt, imported from NZ al the way to Malaysia, and come with a yoghurt maker!

OMG, the taste just like those old days when I always buy myself a tub of yoghurt almost once in 3 weeks. 

Creamy and yummy~

Indeed a good Sunday!

 

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好久沒和敏單獨相聚用餐了,這一夜我們好多話題和八卦,對我而言這就是閨蜜的時光

其實我本身並沒有很多知心的好友,敏算是這麽多年來在我身邊非常重要的一個朋友

不過自從我們各自投入社會后,好幾次我曾經都因爲她和她的同事閒更加親密的交往而感到失落

那種失落是覺得自己仿佛失去了一個知己,被一個重要的,在乎的朋友冷落了。我還記得我在開車的路上失控大哭,揪心的責駡自己的愚蠢

好幾次告訴自己要看開,君子之交淡如水是我應該要有的心態,因爲我投入的感情未必能得到相同的對待,這是現實也是對對方的一種尊重,因爲我不能要求什麽

我隱隱中擔心或許我的在意反而會失去這個摯友,與其擔心和操控失去的時候不如珍惜彼此還是好友的時光

於是我並沒有和敏大吵大鬧,反而時間漸漸過去后,我的心情慢慢平復,慢慢明白其實大家都重視對方,只是方式不同罷了

我的方式是比較主動聯係型且要求回報型,我對人好就希望別人也以同等的好來對待我,所以經常因爲沒有得到同等的待遇,讓我這個天平座心靈心理都失衡

但是人還是會長大,從以前的極端到現在漸漸看開,當然不能完全說不在乎但是是漸漸豁達是真的,應該把這個執著放在愛惜自己身上

 

今晚的晚餐聊了好多,從7點45分一路坐到11點多,我們話題一直變但沒有冷過,要說的話還是很多

敏分享了最近和她的同事吵架的事情,某种程度上我在她同事身上看到了自己的影子,不過我沒像她同事選擇欲擒故縱,鬧情緒耍脾氣

於是我也和敏攤開了我曾有的不滿,當然沒那麽深入,我只不過道出了我的釋懷,她也說了她當時也故意不要理我,哈哈哈

說真的我好像沒有什麽和敏聊過這麽深的話題,當初自己被害妄想症爆發時也想了很多,發現自己其實並沒有很關心這個好友,往往都只是在想她怎樣對我,我的心情如何

原來自己也那麽自私,所以才會豁達,才會釋懷。珍惜這份友情應該包容,應該尊重,應該理解。

所以當敏說她的同事抱怨敏遲遲才說出媽媽生病的事而故意不告訴敏自己車禍的事,頓時覺得有些意氣用事,也很好笑

我想她很在乎敏,但敏沒用相等的方式對待不代表她不在乎他吧?

我曾經在友情這個課題上沉思掙扎矛盾很久,一直在想那是個什麽東西,以前是國振,不久前是韻敏。但是如今我不想去想那麽多,我覺得自己重視他們就應該尊重他們的對待方式,至於施多了,就是自己的結的因,那種下來的果即使不好也應該自己去承受

恩說了那麽多,要回到晚餐的身上了,我這個吃貨還很想感謝那些總是配合我的意願去吃飯的朋友們=)

 

今天的晚餐就在我幾乎沒去過的區域,也挺靠近我家,但是平時只有路過,之前聽説(就是敏那個同事說的)食物還不錯吃,於是乎就在今晚大快朵頤!

其實餐點選擇挺多的,我才想說不要吃big breakfast了,要減肥,結果我還是抵抗不了那個引述的食材召喚!

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看看這多元且新穎的搭配,才馬幣20,老闆真的是佛心來著!

和一般的早餐不一樣,不是普通的荷包蛋或scrambled egg,反而是omelette! 然後有少見的玉米粒和香料一起炒過,還不錯吃,也罕有的搭配smoked duck slices,真的很有心

還有2片煎火腿,馬鈴薯餅也是有點不同,比較大塊然後在煎炸時應該加了些香料,最驚喜的莫過於那個迷你可頌了, 香腸也是超大一條

整體上中歸中舉啦,不過價錢算實惠畢竟分量不小

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我點的lychee black tea也是不錯喝哦,這個小屋造型的茶包好想帶回家啊~

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最後來一張閨蜜合照,這也是好久好久以後難得的合照耶~

致友誼~

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人生當中有很多無常,活著的每一天未必是最好的,但是在這短暫的人生裏,總會有那麽一天是美好的

正如今天對我而言是一個不錯的一天,不一定是最好的,但是卻不是坏的就很棒了

今天早上6點就上班了,因爲工作室太熱鬧了,很多訪客,所以避免耽誤自己的日常工作決定還是提早上班,這樣一來也可以早點下班

所有東西都很順利,雖然在放工后去了銀行滿心以爲可以解決改變電話號碼的問題,結果被告知要在平日4點前來才有用,真的想罵髒話!

你以爲全部人都不用上班嗎?那麽簡單的東西還要特意去你的分行改,真的是他X的!

好撇開那個不說,今天算是有收穫的一天,早上的麵包很順利,然後午餐吃了滿足的咖喱面,下班后在商場買了我很喜歡的手機殼~

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這個浮動閃閃愛心真的一直是我想要的,在用蘋果手機前我的手機都很難找到那種漂亮的手機殼,這下總算有機會用到了,好開心哦~

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這個龍貓,3D版眼睛的也是大愛!賣手機的那個人也說這是限量版,我想是因爲雇主只引進一個吧?

反正我可以買到就很開心,因爲蘋果7還很新,所以市面上漂亮的手機殼很有限,我還在想應該都是要淘寳買了,但是這個念頭才剛起,馬上轉角就看到了手機殼專賣檔口

而且其實他們針對蘋果7的型號比一般市場上看到的更加特別 =)

我現在用的手機殼是一時衝動去買的客制化手機殼

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瓖有我的名字,唯一的問題是太貴了,而且會貨不對板,因爲我個人對這個藍不是很滿意。不過買了也就算了~

 

回家后才下傾盆大雨,媽媽還說我公司那一區大淹水,那我是何等幸運啊!

吃過晚飯后,又看了五月天20周年演唱會直播,這相信音樂公司真的是佛心來著,我雖然是半途才同步,但是還是很高興可以看到后半段的一個小時直播

至少阿信唱完《憨人》后的那段肺腑之言還是讓我感動流涕~

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是的,20年前我們都不認識彼此,但是此時此刻我們卻在一起相遇,這正是美好的時光!

謝謝你們,雖然你一直說是我們替你們創造奇跡,但是是你們的追夢精神讓我們不停的在背後默默支持你們~

所以這麽説來今天不正是很好的一天嗎? =D

 

還有要補充的是在6天前我被欣清推薦參與臉書上的7天po圖挑戰,所以其實這6天以來都在狂想點子po文 

其實這挑戰挺棒的,因爲如此一來,我就可以去留意自己身邊的小確幸,我想這7天結束后,我應該還是會繼續po圖,不過可能是在別的媒介上因爲不想一直暴露在社交圈子上哈哈

回顧過去6天的圖,第一天就是和hema的晚餐,那杯我喝的抹茶那鉄~

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然後第2天是我們家的開心果,樂樂來了,看她和我爸玩得不亦樂乎,家裏有小孩就是不一樣~

儅了爺爺的爸爸自從樂樂出世后也是很開心,我這下才知道爸爸真的很喜歡小孩子 =)

現在幾乎每週六,樂樂都會來我家,真的挺好的,至少看的出來我爸媽都很開心^^

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第3天也就是剛過的星期天,我們去掃墓了,因爲下周就是清明了,爲了避開人潮所以提早一周前去了

但是其實也是很多人哦,而且天氣超熱的><!!

這是剛抵達時拍的,大約早上6點半左右。

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第4天時其實有點頭疼不知道該上載什麽了,最後就靈機一動用家裏拿來哄樂樂的冰箱字母磁鐵自創了這個

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笑笑沒煩惱阿~=)

 

至於昨天在去羽球場的路上下了很大有點怕怕的大雨,我都好害怕自己會再次進入淹水區

不過也上載了這張圖:

 

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下大雨的駕駛真的膽戰心驚啊~

 

順帶一提,昨天我們“在工作室是享用美食哈哈哈。

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我們的sales 去了登嘉樓一趟買了當地盛產的魚餅(生的),然後昨天我們廚房的阿姨就下鍋了,哈哈哈

 

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