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I was chatting with my brother a while ago, well, mummy was busy cleaning up the house so I was chatting with him. (Dad was away for badminton).

I used to chat a lot with my brother lately, actually after since I started working.

Reason was because I realized him need attention, and the truth was he did encounter some problems in school. Well, my younger brother is at the teenage rebellion stage now, and he was raised with extra care and great attention (my mum gave birth to him when she was early 40s) consequently contributed to his innocence nature and naïve character. Besides, my family also doubted that my brother has attention deficit hyperactive disorder (ADHD) but probably we refused to admit or discover whether if he is or not. However, the world is getting worst now, no longer expect high school life to be happy and innocent, he was being bullied at school.

The stories were unbelievable; I can’t imagine kids nowadays are that scary. They were not physically hurting my brother, but for sure mentally my brother was being hurt. That’s why I am paying attention to my cute brother nowadays, really worried about him and his future.

I am kinda helpless with his problems as I never had this before in my life. I was once being bullied when I was 14, but not a serious one. I was studying in a lower grade class, and my classmates were basically naughty and dislike studying. Well, I got many attention as I was a monitor and I was the number one in terms of study result at the class. Therefore, guys used to tease me a lot and sometimes they did have some bad action towards a girl. However, I am not an easy one, I remembered I always reported what they had done to me to teachers, that’s why some of them do hate me I guess. Whereas other girls, I think many of them jealous of me as well and do judge my scoring skills in exam. Therefore, I studied so hard and got transferred to higher grade class and become happier. The beginning was hard, as there’s still competition around, and they were not friendly, but sooner I emerged with a new gang of mine, and stay ordinary but happy. The problem is my case is different and couldn’t be applied on my brother’s. He hate studying and more likely that he has a different mind.

That’s why I am worried, and really pray and hope he wont get bullied anymore. Most importantly, I really pray he wont get into the darker mind set, and please stay happy, healthy and strong Kai!

You are always loved and blessed!